While seemingly disparate, the topics of male Brazilian waxing and handjobs both involve intimacy, confidence, and a focus on male pleasure and grooming. This article explores both subjects, providing a comprehensive guide for those interested in learning more.
Far gone are the days when Brazilian waxing was reserved for those with a vagina. After all, everyone deserves to feel confident, groomed, and oh-so-sexy. Whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned pro, this male Brazilian waxing guide is here to spill the beans on everything you need to know about getting a male Brazilian wax.
A Brazilian wax for men and women is similar: A Brazilian wax removes all the hair in your pubic area, from front to back and everything in between. This includes the shaft, scrotum, inner buttocks, and outer buttocks. Some men like to leave a thin strip or a triangle of hair above the penis.
A male Brazilian wax treatment isn’t all that different from the waxing process for women. There’s no specific “male Brazilian wax etiquette” you need to know about. Really, the main difference is that men tend to have more - and thicker - body hair. But there’s no such thing as too hairy at Waxing the City. Our Cerologists have performed services on thousands of men and have seen it all.
As we said, the process for everyone - those with penises and vaginas - is similar and quite simple:
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Once you’ve arrived at the studio, your Cerologist will show you to the room. They will then give you a skin care cleansing wipe and a privacy sheet. The wipe is to clean your intimate area prior to waxing - especially helpful if you’re coming to the studio after a gym sesh, midday, or after work.
The Cerologist will then leave the room so that you can undress from the waist down. Once you’re undressed, you can cover yourself with the privacy sheet. If you’re worried about your Cerologist seeing you in all your hairy glory, don’t be. They are seasoned professionals who have encountered every scenario imaginable and are entirely non-judgmental about it. Remember, they specialize in Brazilian waxing and perform these services daily. So, there’s absolutely no need for self-consciousness. Remember, you are beautiful just the way you are!
Your Cerologist will knock on the door after several minutes and ask if you’re ready. They will then direct you through the entire waxing process and different positioning so that they can remove any and all unwanted hair. They will wax hair from the front of the pubic bone, around the external genitals, between the upper thighs, and around the anus. Be sure to communicate to your Cerologist exactly how much hair you want removed. Depending on your preferences, you can choose to have all hair in the area removed or leave a small strip in the front. The entirety of the waxing process will take about 45 minutes.
The most obvious benefit of getting a Brazilian wax for guys and gals is that it can enhance your grooming game and make you look and feel more confident. However, it goes beyond just appearances. Having a hair-free pubic area can make certain activities comfortable and hygienic. If you feel that having hair in that area makes you feel less aroused or can be a turn-off, a Brazilian wax for men can be a significant boost to your sexual confidence. Other benefits include:
For the best outcome, there are some steps you can take in the days ahead of your appointment:
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Everyone has a different scale for pain tolerance. What’s painful for one person may not affect another person as much. However, at Waxing the City, both our wax and our process work together to offer you the most comfortable waxing service possible. If you’re still worried about managing sensitivity, we recommend taking an ibuprofen or aspirin roughly 30 minutes before your appointment to help maximize your comfort. Pro-tip: Waxing more frequently will help with sensitivity as hair grows back finer and sparser!
If your pubic area feels sensitive after a Brazilian wax treatment (which is totally normal, especially after your first time), there are a few things that can help. Cold compresses and cooling gels can soothe the skin. Plus, cold packs can also help close the skin’s pores.
Wear loose clothing and avoid activities that might cause friction or chafing. After a few days or up to a week, exfoliate using a light scrub or gentle exfoliating serum and continue exfoliation every few days until your next wax.
For estheticians, it's not uncommon for male clients to experience erections during waxing. It's crucial to maintain professionalism and not make a big deal out of it. Some find it helpful as it stretches the skin. The focus should remain on providing the service efficiently and comfortably. Setting clear boundaries and expectations with clients is essential.
Hand jobs don’t get the respect they deserve. They’re an activity that many people (especially heterosexual people) haven’t done since they were teenagers. But, just like fingering a woman, manually stimulating a man can be one of the best ways to give focused stimulation. Here’s everything you need to know to give a fantastic hand job.
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Enthusiastic consent is key. Some guys just don’t like hand jobs, or won’t want one in that particular moment. That’s OK. Enthusiasm is essential on the giver’s end too. Enthusiasm is so crucial to great sex. If your partner can tell you’re just going through the motions, it’s going to be really hard for them to lie back and receive. If you’ve never given your partner a hand job before, play that up. Let him know you’re excited to try something new, and to give his penis some focused attention.
Wash your hands and make sure your nails are short and smooth.
Let’s do a quick anatomy refresher. The shaft is the majority of the penis. It’s capped off by the head of the penis, which typically looks like a mushroom cap. The head will be exposed if he’s circumcised, and covered with a foreskin if he’s not. If he’s not circumcised, the foreskin will typically retract on its own when he’s erect, so the head of the penis is exposed. On the underside of his penis is his frenulum. It looks like a little seam, and is typically ultra-sensitive. At the base of his penis are his testicles.
Have him lie flat on his back. If he wants to watch the action, he can sit up a bit, with some pillows propped behind him for support. Sit between his legs, facing his head. You can sit cross-legged, or stretch your legs out on top of his. You want to be able to be comfortable for a decent amount of time, so do whatever maneuvering you need to do.
Lube is absolutely essential for a great hand job. The penis doesn’t self-lubricate, you need to use lube to ensure that things go smoothly. I like silicone lubes like Pjur Original-the best because you can go forever without needing to reapply. They also feel fantastic against the skin.
Tell him, “I want to see what you do when you touch yourself.” Then pay attention to his grip, technique, and speed. It’s incredibly erotic to watch.
In particular, I think it’s helpful to get a sense of how tightly he squeezes his penis. If you don’t have a penis yourself, you might be nervous about using too much pressure. But the most common complaint I hear from men is that their partners don’t use a firm enough grip. If you can’t get a good enough sense from watching him, try this-grip his penis, and slowly increase the pressure. Ask him to stop you until you get to the pressure that feels best for him.
The basic hand job technique is to move your hand up and down his shaft. I recommend a gentle back-and-forth twisting motion with your wrist as you move up and down, to give him a little extra stimulation as you go. Focus a bit of extra attention on the sensitive head. You may want to slow down a bit once you get to the head, or squeeze a bit tighter.
Once you get comfortable, you can try using two hands. You can place one fist on top of the other, and move them up and down in unison. Or try interlacing your fingers, and wrapping both hands around his penis. Another fun trick is to wrap one hand around the head of his penis, and slide it down his shaft to the base. As soon as you hit the base, repeat the movement with your other hand. Release at the base, so your hands keep moving in one direction only. Keep doing this over and over again. It will feel like he’s endlessly penetrating your hands.
While you’re working his shaft with one hand, use your other hand to explore the rest of his genitals. The testicles are a great place to stimulate. Be more delicate with his testicles than you are with his shaft. Hold both of his testicles in your hand, and gently squeeze or tug on them. The skin between his testicles can be particularly sensitive, so try lightly holding the skin between your thumb and pointer finger, and slowly moving your fingers from the base of his testicles down to the edge.
You can also play with his perineum and his anus. Use a lubed-up knuckle to apply a good amount of pressure to the perineum. A kneading motion can work well. If you have his permission, you can also apply a bit of pressure to his anus.
Don’t be afraid to ask him for feedback about what he likes best or what he wants you to do.
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